NLP At Work : The Difference That Makes the Difference in Business

(Steven Felgate) #1
Visual metaphors

time to change the metaphor that underpinned the culture of
this company.
Listen to the language that colleagues and friends use.
Have you heard these sorts of statements?

❏ I need to combat his response.
❏ We can overcome objections.
❏ We need to keep our heads down.
❏ On track to achieve what we want.
❏ Steaming ahead.
❏ We will carry no passengers.
❏ Everything in the garden is rosy.
❏ They are blooming.
❏ Business has died down.
❏ Life is a ball.

When you are aware of the metaphor by which you, friends,
and colleagues live, you will be aware of the way you and they
are thinking. Understanding the metaphor both in and behind
the communication can help you make sense of an individual's
experience. If you know someone who thinks in terms of
overcoming objections, you may begin to understand any
resistance they experience from their colleagues, staff, and
customers. Imagine how you would feel if someone were
attempting to overcome your objections!
Metaphors are rich in their ability to enhance
communication. Below are some examples of visual
metaphors drawn by course delegates to depict either the way
they saw themselves then or the way they wanted to see
themselves in the future.

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