NLP At Work : The Difference That Makes the Difference in Business

(Steven Felgate) #1
When we are relating to the world at large it is vital that we
appeal to all senses. In this way we “catch” all the preferences
that our readers, our listeners, our viewers, and our potential
clients might have. At the time of writing there is a backlash
against some e-business propositions; at the same time there is
a boom in interest in “clicks and mortar” businesses. These are
established high street businesses (the mortar) that have
developed ways of attracting people to their premises through
the web (mouse clicks). Given what we know about our need
to appeal to all senses this is not surprising. The combination of
the technology with a physical outlet appeals to both our
intellectual and physical needs. So people are currently more
likely to search for what they want on the web but follow
through with a visit to a store where they can see, hold, touch,
and talk through the items they want to buy.

Is it any surprise that communication is one of the most widely
recognized problems in business? Consider the level of
frustration so many people express with the meetings they
attend. Even when an objective is agreed, it is likely that each
person at the meeting will represent a successful conclusion in
a different way. For example, outcomes could include:

❏ VisualAn image of all the agreed actions written up on a
whiteboard with names against each one.
❏ AuditoryPeople talking to each other at the close of the
meeting, making comments such as: “That’s been really
useful. I know exactly what my department has to do next.”
❏ FeelingsThoughts about shaking hands with other people
at the meeting and a satisfied, warm feeling.

You may already recognize preferences in your thinking, and
they may of course vary from one scenario to another. To check
out any preferences use the questionnaire on page 30,
“Identify your preferred thinking pattern.”

This year my husband got a new company car with a satellite
navigation system. We have used this on many occasions and
we can choose the style in which the directions are represented.
If my husband selects the settings he chooses the smallest-scale

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Imagined outcomes of a
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