Index 367—J—
justice
teaches generality, 129
—K—
Kepler, 171, 174
Khrushchev, 189
knowing, 106
knowing, shortcut to
embrace strong feelings, 91
remain objective, 91
koans, 185
—L—
Lane Friesen, 14. See Friesen, Lane
lawsuit, 128
life, 32, 34, 72
compared to pseudo-life, 226
defined, 17
leads to democracy, 75
linked to conscience, 77
list of requirements, 75
needs sense of generality, 73
needs sense of time, 72
system of belief, 51
—M—
male-female difference, 19
map, 76
cannot detect errors in map, 91
clarifies Mercy-Perceiver
interaction, 58
illustrates associative thought, 21
needed for this book, 27
requires Perceiver strategy, 157
marriage
conflicts, 58
who gets married, 59
massa intermedia, 15
mathematics, 171, 175, 180
me
and Mercy identification, 132
charging and discharging, 141
defined, 33, 118, 131
distinguished from Mercy
identification, 145
distinguished from self-image,
138
more than my body, 131
one me changed at a time, 162
redefining, 154
two conflicting concepts, 133
two forms, 151
me of Mercy identification
a cause of suffering, 164
and physical passivity, 133
and pseudo-theories, 213
and racism, 220, 221
and schizophrenia, 225
and taboos, 212
changing first, 222
changing too soon, 224
combined with patience, 167
delaying change, 163
no instant change possible, 161
postponing change, 162
primitive in the West, 212
protected by taboos, 146
reconciling with physical body,
142
remaining unchanged, 181
Russian transformation, 189
starting personal change, 165
the big picture of walking, 226
the illusion of change, 184
me of the physical body
and pseudo-thinking, 213
change needs anchor, 162
completing transformation, 166
excessive growth causes
problems, 220
in the United States, 162
related to common sense, 138
sexual encounters, 224
structure preserves feelings, 212
suffering and growth, 163
the Buddhist contradiction, 184
underactive in schizophrenia, 225
meditation, 184
Mercy
concentrates, 33
concrete data, 44
empathizes, 28