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Index 369

boundaries teach time, 114
consistency, 113
goes beyond talk, 97
non-condemning, 96
physical discipline, 98
rewards teach time, 115
rules, 113
teaching about time, 98
teaching generality, 98
parents
source of 'truth', 93
source of defining experiences,
34
parietal lobe, 21, 40, 66, 131, 147
Parkinson‟s Disease, 14
patience, 167
distinguished from ignorance,
167
symmetry with conscience, 80
Perceiver
absolutes, 53
associates facts, 44
brevity, 50
clichés, 50
conservative thinker, 49
creative process described, 159
cynic, 55
hypocrisy, 50
illustrated by map, 45
initial programming, 92
interrupted easily, 44
jokes are 'one-liners', 50
labels of knowing or feeling, 62
labels use confidence, 47
leap of faith, 55
links time sequences, 69
location in brain, 66
looks for symmetries, 46
sees Mercy part, 57
speaks to problem not person, 58
Perceiver automatic thought
defined, 48
labeled by reasonableness, 49
must be filled, 49
object detection, 64
useful, 49
Perceiver internal world, 64
entered through belief, 51
location in brain, 66
spatial objects, 70

permissiveness, 115

personal loss

compared to guilt, 144

personal transformation

altering environment insufficient,

161

and research, 165

defined, 156

inescapable, 93

linked to life after death, 161

Mercy identification moves first,

165

path of suffering, 1 57

Peter the Great, 189

phobia, 32, 107, 108, 183

Piaget, 61

Pietism, 109

Plato, 45

primitive peoples, 116

professionalism

basis of pseudo-culture, 205

pseudo-cultures, 205

pseudo-maturity

breeds pseudo-thinking, 213

pseudo-theories, 203

turn into pseudo-life, 226

Ptolemy, 174

punishment, 79

punishment of criminals, 127

—Q—

Quebec, 99

—R—

racism, 220

overcome by professionalism,

222

reasonableness, 49

rebellion

a lack of patience, 168

acting 'cool', 110

an alternative, 111

avoiding, 113

belittling parents, 110

by teen, 109

created by freedom, 113

teen against parents, 96