Don’t try to hide the fact that you’re picking a woman
up — be great at it, then get into cocky and funny (and
reframe as them picking you up! Ha).
The Initial Approach
This one is simple.
I’ve tried probably 50 different types of ‘lines’ and
techniques for meeting women, and I’ve found that the
simple ones work the best.
If I’m in an environment that has a lot of people, and
I’m with a friend, I’d start by asking a woman for her
‘opinion’ on something. Here’s how it happens... first of
all, I keep my eyes open for current affairs and
interesting trivia that involves gender differences and
tension. This makes for amazing conversation openers
with hot, intelligent women.
My favorite: “Hey, let me ask you a question. My
friend and I were talking about something, and I think we
need a female perspective...” (This is a killer, by the way.
It took me a long time to figure this one out... but it kicks
ass). Then I’d say, “I was just looking on the Internet...
and did you know that the average woman in America is
5’ 4”, weighs 150 pounds, and wears a size
14?” Ohhhhhhhhhh DAMMIT...
I LOVE THIS ONE!
They usually grab the ball and take off into the
conversation with just that question.
Others include, “Do you think that men understand
what women really want and need?” and “What do you
think of this new trend of women wanting to pay their
own way?”
You with me here?