Chapter 8: How To Approach “Dating”....
How To Get The First Meeting
First of all, I’m going to explain my mindset: I decided
that I needed about 20-30 minutes to get to know a
woman before I decided to invest in getting to ‘really’
know her.
I actually like women for their company, and who I’d
enjoy seeing for more than just one ‘get laid’ session.
So I liked to meet a woman for a cup of tea and talk
for a bit, or even let that lead to a bite to eat sometimes.
So my mindset is that I’M THERE TO QUALIFY THEM. Not
the other way around. They picked up on this mentality
and responded accordingly.
Can Control This Two Ways Women Think About Men And How You
You Can Control This
I believe that women see men with whom they get
involved as either ‘long-term relationship’ material or
‘sex’ material. You have to make the choice about which
category you’d like to be in. By the way, if you get
involved sexually, you can usually extend that for as long
as you’d like.
If, on the other hand, you don’t get involved sexually
but you still buy her dinner, call her all the time, and
pursue her, there’s a good chance that you’ll NEVER get
involved with her sexually.
Many, if not most guys, think that if they play the
dating game that they’ll wind up ‘getting some’
eventually. This just isn’t so. I’ve met so many women
who say, “Well, I have this guy that I let buy me things