First, let’s talk about WHY most guys allow the
conversation to turn to these ultra-boring topics...
Most guys approach a first date from the perspective
of ‘I don’t want to screw this up’. In other words, they try
to play it safe and not do anything or say anything that
the girl might not like.
They try to present themselves as ‘nice guys’ who love
mom, have a good job, and are stable.
Somehow, guys have gotten the idea that if they act
nice, buy dinner, and talk about the same old things that
everyone else uses to bore women to tears that they
might get lucky and score (or at least get a kiss and a
second opportunity to buy dinner). I don’t know where
this concept came from, but it’s just not a very effective
approach.
WOMEN AREN’T ATTRACTED TO THE SAME OLD SAME
OLD, BORING, PREDICTABLE CONVERSATION. Attraction
happens when there is energy, spice, humor, mystery...
COCKY AND FUNNY... and saucy conversation.
So if you want to create ATTRACTION instead of
BOREDOM, you’re going to have to learn a new way.
You’re going to have to learn to talk about something
else.
The trick to not talking about the ‘usual’ things is to
know how to make conversation INTERESTING.
Let me ask you, what are the most INTERESTING
topics to humans in general? Right – drama, violence,
scandal, and comedy that is painful to one of the parties
involved. Here are a few good ideas for conversation that
come to mind:
“So what’s with The Real Housewives being so
popular? I guess people just can’t get enough of