dysfunctional rich people... they have to watch it on TV
too.”
"I'm so bummed that [celebrity A] broke up with
[celebrity B]... they were so cute together" -- stay in loop
about pop culture references, so you always have
something current to bring up and get her talking.
Maybe even add some quick teasing to the topic by
saying "It's really a shame they are not together
anymore... I bet they would have really good looking
children - well, maybe not as good looking as OUR
CHILDREN would be..." - but quickly go back to talking
about the celebrity couple. Giving that mix signal will
make her very intrigued, confused and ultimately
ATTRACTED to you.
These topics will light up a conversation like nobody’s
business. And they create all kinds of opportunities to be
cocky and funny while talking about the misfortunes and
neurotic behavior of others. The trick is that you must
remember you’re not there to impress her, and you’re not
on a job interview. The more you act nervous, stilted, and
uncomfortable... like you’re trying to impress her and get
her approval... and like you don’t want to say anything
that might make her disapprove of you, the less likely
you are to trigger that all-important ATTRACTION inside
of her.
And here’s a real twist on this theme: If SHE starts
asking the ‘normal’ questions about school, job, family,
etc. this is a perfect opportunity to bust on her and say,
“What, is this a job interview?” or “Can’t you think of
something interesting to talk about? Please, spare me the
pain of the usual school-job-family conversation. Let’s
save that until we’re picking names for our kids.”
Here are a few other good ideas for conversation:
1) History. Women love to hear stories about the
history of places. If you’re in an interesting part of