Chapter 9: Getting Physical..................
How To Take The Next Step
OK, so we’re on the way home from coffee (because I
said, “OK, let’s go...”) and we’re back at my house. Here’s
one that I love... If it’s at night, look at your watch and
say, “Well, I have to get up early in the morning... but...
OK, you can come in for a few minutes...”
This is perfect! You’re talking to her like she’s trying to
convince you to let her in, and she hasn’t said anything!
Nice. (Read it again if you didn’t pick up what I said.)
Then just walk in and let her follow. (By the way,
again, I always open doors for women, walk on the
outside of the curb, and pull chairs out, etc.) If you act
chivalrous and bust her balls at the same time, you’ll be
rewarded with good things from Santa.
So, now you’re in the house... take her for a tour... and
either sit down on the bed to talk to her or on the couch...
wherever you wind up.
I’d just kind of get a little quieter and let her talk while
I looked at her. I’d lean away from her and keep looking...
sometimes looking away as if I was thinking about
something.
Then, I’d reach over and start stroking her hair while
she’s talking. I’d stroke down at the bottom first. If she’s
OK with this, I’d take it as a sign that she was WAAYYYYY
into me and is probably going to be wanting sex within 60
minutes (if you have any doubts, ask a woman if she’ll let
a guy stroke her hair while she’s on his bed on the first
date if she’s not into him).