This is a big piece of the puzzle that I figured out...
I used to do all kinds of massages and other stuff, but
then discovered the simple hair stroke test. If they liked
their hair stroked, they were at the VERY LEAST going to
be making out with me in short order, period. I’d
occasionally do a hand massage here or a little neck
massage, but next I’d pull her close to me and cuddle
with her... and then land the killer.
I have personally always liked the way women smell...
so when she was laying next to me with my stroking her
hair, I began to smell her shoulders... just a little at first,
and then more and more... while stroking her hair. Within
about 5 or 10 minutes, I’m smelling her neck and ears...
no kissing, and no groping at all. Never! I’m just smelling,
then leaning back and acting like I’m completely enjoying
the smelling, and it’s relaxing me. Try this, my friends... if
you can keep on smelling... she’ll get so turned on that
you won’t believe it! At some point she’d try to kiss me...
which is just what I was waiting for. I’d let her lips get
close to mine... even touch just a teensy bit... and then I’d
back away and keep smelling. I might say, “Oh, you’re
kind of forward” ... love it. After a few of these, I’ll kiss
her... and run my hands through her hair... the whole
romantic kiss thing... then, again, stop. This kind of
teasing and teasing is very stimulating to women. They
love it.
I’m waiting for her to start doing something that is
sexual... for instance grinding her hips on me... or
grabbing my ass... whatever.
When you’re patient, the woman will usually do
something that is subtly sexual FIRST. This is key, as
she’s then the aggressor...
Then do a little verbal move and say, “All you have
to do is say PLEASE.”
I’m laughing as I write this... damn this is great.