But their unconscious knows and recognizes this
desire as something that they want. They also hold a kind
of inner CONTEMPT for the weak people (especially men)
who give them everything they want, as is evidenced by
the “Oh, he’s just a guy I use to buy me things and “He’s
my ‘Boytoy’ kind of comments that women often make to
their girlfriends.
On the topic of men giving gifts to women and buying
them things: Many women will take what is available to
them (even if they have to do a little manipulation for it),
but they will ultimately resent and disrespect a man who
gives too much to them.
As a matter of fact, to most hot women, THEIR
REALITY is that men kiss up to them and give them what
they ask for or demand (worst case, they have to get
upset or act bitchy to get their way). AGAIN, THIS IS
THEIR REALITY. Men who don’t fit this mold are often just
tuned out as if they didn’t exist in order to keep this
reality as pure as possible for them.
(Also, I think that many women harbor contempt for
their beauty. At a shadow level, they are kept from living
a real life and being closer to the real world simply
because fewer and fewer people can relate to them in
proportion to how ‘beautiful’ they are and make
themselves. Addressing this topic when speaking to
women is VERY powerful. More later.)
Men are often behaving like ass kissers because they
are afraid that a woman might get upset and leave. The
fact is that by acting this way, a woman is MORE likely to
leave. It’s one of those paradoxes that’s a self-fulfilling
prophesy. If a woman whines, a man might begin to
think, “Oh, no... I need to kiss her ass or she might
leave. Even though she’s being ridiculous, I have to go
along with it...”