This is bad for her, for you, and for the relationship
between you. Learn to never let a woman act like a Brat
without you calling her on it (AND IN A COOL, ALMOST
INDIFFERENT WAY!)
This is very counter-intuitive, but again, we’re dealing
with female human behavior, which has roots and drives
that are complex and often difficult to trace.
The solution is to NOT kiss ass or do things for them
like everyone else. Be different. Expect them to pull their
own weight, call them on all of their issues and messed-
up behaviors just like you would a guy friend or family
member (Use the same “you’re my friend and I’m saying
this for your benefit” tone that you’d use with a friend),
tease and make fun of their insecurities in a playful way,
reframe other men who kiss their ass, and put beauty in a
new light (as a curse, etc., how she can never have
anyone see her for who she truly is, how every man she
knows would sleep with her in a minute, and how it often
leads to less inner fulfillment).
The fact is that women will sleep with rich men who
kiss their asses and model-handsome guys who don’t
treat them well to satisfy their PHYSICAL drives.
But overall, an average looking man who takes good
care of himself and makes enough money to live
comfortably who is cocky, direct, challenging, confident,
funny, and in control - one who challenges her constantly
and never kisses her ass EVER - will be FAR more fulfilling
to a beautiful woman than the other types.
This difference is not only interesting to her, but it’s
also challenging as well (something she doesn’t
experience often). A man who does such will not only be
able to win her body, but also her interest and
fascination. It will also keep her messed up behaviors
more in check while allowing you to stay more in control
of the situation.