you want, but do yourself a favor and read Matt Ridley’s
book, The Red Queen, before you start speculating.
Think about it. There are major advantages to men
(or at least to their genes) to sleep with many women.
First, it doesn’t take a lot of energy, and there’s not
very much risk involved. (I realize that there is risk of
disease, etc., but for the moment think about the fact
that a man could probably father dozens of children
before a disease would take him out, making the tradeoff,
genetically speaking, a no-brainer.)
I personally believe that men are hard-wired to look
for sexual opportunities and seek out sexual variety. (Let
me also add that just because you’re hard-wired to like
sweet foods doesn’t mean that you should only eat sweet
foods. This will lead you to sickness and eventually to
disease and death.)
With this in mind, I’d like you to ask yourself:
What are my beliefs about monogamy?
Where did they come from?
Do I like my beliefs?
Do my beliefs conflict with my inner drives?
Would I like to change what I believe based on this
new information?
In any event, from now forward, don’t let anyone or
anything make you feel bad because of your NATURAL
desires and attraction to women. (I’m of course talking
about reasonable desires and attractions. If you like to
think about hurting women, underage women, etc., then
do yourself a favor and get some help.)