I wasn’t ‘cool’ when I started, but now I’ve learned
how to become more so. Huge difference. (Am I saying
that you can’t attract women if you wear Nikes and have
messed up hair? No. But remember the old saying: “A
blind pig can find an occasional truffle...”)
Of course, don’t overdo it.
I’ve tried the whole dressing well bit in the past to the
point of looking like I’m trying too hard. Now I dress more
‘casual nice’. I wear a lot of Calvin Klein T-Shirts with
black jeans and nice black shoes, etc. This look with a
nice leather coat works well in almost any situation. This
is a look that you can put together for a couple or few
hundred bucks (for several sets).
Here’s my mindset: Keep improving all the time, even
if it’s the SMALLEST DETAIL.
I noticed that almost every time I went out, a girl
would ask me for a light. I’d always just said, “I don’t
smoke” or “No”. But finally, I said “Ah-Ha” and went to
the lighter store SPECIFICALLY to find the coolest lighter
that anyone has ever invented. I bought this torch lighter
that make a huge flame. It looked like a welding flame.
So what do you think happened the first time I went out
with it? Right... got asked for a light... and got a ‘wow’
reaction from her, which started a conversation.
A list of random things to improve:
Keep all nails on your body short, clean, and neat. The only place where hair is good is on your head.
Keep all other hair trimmed, or have it removed.
Nose and ear hairs are a no-no. Bushy eyebrows
are a no-no. Bushy pubic hairs are a no-no. Keep the teeth clean. Get a tongue scraper and use
it a lot. Floss. Use mouthwash. Fix any blatantly