Next, you have to practice putting yourself into your
three powerful states when you’re in different
environments. So go to different places and practice
getting yourself into your states with distractions, etc.
This might take some doing, but once you have it
mastered, you’ll be able to get yourself into a positive
state when you’re not feeling it to begin with (Could this
exercise be useful when you’re feeling shy or afraid to
meet someone? Maybe!)
I also started keeping a personal journal of everything
that I was learning and doing, so I could reflect on it.
Find Others.........................................................
MOST IMPORTANTLY I found and started to hang
around guys who WERE SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN. This
was the biggie. I owe much of my success to the guys
who showed me in the real world what they did. It wasn’t
the books and the people selling tapes and seminars. It
was the guys who were successful in the real world. What
I do now resembles nothing that I’ve really read in a book
or learned from an author.
So the BEST advice I can give you is to find about 5
guys in your area that know what they’re doing and say,
“Hey, I really want to get this part of my life handled...
can I take you to dinner (no kissing) and pick your brain
man?” Be humble and cool, and you’ll make some friends.
Like I said, find about 5 different guys so you can get
different perspectives and see how it all fits together.
By the way, go read Chapter 10 in Think and Grow
Rich about the ‘Master Mind’ group. IF YOU DO NOTHING
ELSE, DO THIS ONE THING. IT WILL MAKE THE
DIFFERENCE.