I have read some interesting research that shows that
women have a few main categories in their minds in
which they slot men.
These are:
1) Not interested at all.2) Interested as a friend.3) Interested in a long-term relationship.4) Interested in a sexual relationship.Here’s the interesting part: If a woman sees a man as
a good potential ‘long-term’ mate, she’ll usually hold back
the sex.
On the other hand, if she gets sexually involved with a
man, she’ll usually still be open to a long-term
relationship.
Most men who want sex make the mistake of doing
things like taking women to dinner, buying them gifts,
and being romantic. This behavior triggers the “Hey, this
guy is good long-term material” category in the woman’s
mind, and they hold back sex.
But if a man does things to turn a woman on earlier in
the game and she gets sexually involved, he can choose
where he wants the relationship to go. Are you with me
on this one?
Go ask some men and women about this idea. They’ll
report back to you what I’m telling you. Women know
that if a man is doing all the big romantic things like
buying her gifts and taking her out, he is displaying
‘courtship’ types of behavior. I mentioned earlier that
women take hints very well and read into things much
more than men. Unfortunately, men have no idea that