Another realization I’ve had is that most women are
totally intrigued by men who seem uninterested and
crass... it’s almost like they say to themselves, “Wow, this
guy seems kind of cocky... and I can’t believe that he’s
not interested in having sex with me like all the other
dumb pussies that I meet... He’s funny and smart... I
wonder if I can get him interested in me... and when I do,
I’ll just dump him like the other losers... but this might be
fun...”
Get it?
But if you are going to act this way, you have to keep
it up until the end... and I mean to the end.
I’m going to address the ‘treating women well’ issue
again.
I treat women very well... they always tell me that
they’ve never met a man who treats them so well, etc.
How can this be when I seem like such a ball buster?
Well, it’s simple really... I do nice things for them ON
MY OWN TERMS. I will surprise them with a thoughtful
email or a card... or I might give them a nice massage... I
open doors and walk on the outside of the curb... But part
of most women’s romantic fantasy (in my opinion) is the
man taking control of the situation and doing things on
HIS terms. Try it for yourself... next time you’re going to
meet a woman, tell her what to wear... choose the food
and tell her to trust you... if she asks for a kiss, say,
“No”... but kiss her later when YOU feel like it... if you
know that she likes chocolate, and she asks for some...
don’t give it to her... but surprise her with some next time
you see her... get it?
Here are a couple of rules of thumb that I use: