And remember that ‘desirable’ women including rich
women, beautiful women, and famous women, are used
to being treated like queens. (It’s really no fault of theirs;
even very handsome men are notorious for acting
arrogant. It’s part of being human. We can all become
spoiled easily if the right combination of circumstances
arises. By the way, it’s good to keep a “You’re spoiled,
and I don’t really blame you for it... you were just lucky
to be born beautiful and have everyone kiss your ass”
attitude...)
Being spoiled, these women act bratty to get their
way. However, the ass kissing and always getting their
way also has another effect. Since they are so used to
being courted and having a man kiss their ass, when you
show up, act funny and charming, and don’t play into any
of their games (make fun of them, do the pretend ass-
kisser imitation, tell them that they want you, tease
them, don’t answer ANY of their questions about job, car,
home, social life, where you go, etc. and even label all of
those questions as, “Did you get a list of these questions
like all the other shallow women around here?” etc.) it
often has the effect of them thinking, “Wow, this is sure
DIFFERENT”, which gets their attention. The humor and
arrogance (arrogance based on self-knowing, not on
outer success) keeps their attention.
I think that it’s all about interrupting the current train
of thought with some type of DIFFERENT AND
INTERESTING behavior. You can use tricks, props, or
whatever, but you have to interrupt the woman and first
get her attention... then you can get to the good part of
doing the things that give her the FEELINGS that she
wants and playing the part of the MAN that her
unconscious wants.
Many experts talk of establishing rapport, acting like
them, etc. initially... I’ve found that breaking rapport
usually works better for me. (Rapport is the concept of