breathing, moving, and talking like another person so
they feel a connection with you.)
But it’s a special kind of breaking rapport that I
practice. I break rapport in a funny and charming way,
which actually ASSUMES rapport from the beginning. (I
insult women that I don’t know in a playful way all the
time. Her only real choices with which to respond
internally and externally are, “This guy is a jerk - I’m
outta here” or “You’ve got some balls - but you’re damn
funny - and for some reason, I feel like I know you...”)
When you point out a woman’s quirks or insecurities in a
way that makes her laugh, you do so many positive
things at once. She can’t deny that the things you’re
saying are true, BECAUSE SHE’S LAUGHING. And she
can’t really hate you too much, because it’s kind of fun.
More On My Way Of Looking At Things....................
I don’t ask women for permission to do things, and I
don’t look to them to lead what’s going to happen next. I
used to kind of watch what they were doing and take cues
on how to act. Now I do and say what I want and look for
cues from her so I know when to bust her balls.
I spent a long time learning how to get phone
numbers from women only to realize that this wasn’t the
same as success. Then, I learned how to get women to
come over to my house only to realize that this wasn’t the
same as success. I finally realized that I have to lead the
way the entire time – just like in ballroom dancing. I have
to know where we’re going and lead the way the entire
time.
But my most important realization is that THIS IS MY
REALITY, AND SHE IS A GUEST – not the other way
around. If a woman tried to play a game with me, put me
off, give me an excuse, etc. I’d start laughing out loud at
her. At first, she doesn’t know what’s going on... but then