but also able to change the codes they used each time.
Women are much more interested in giving and getting
subtle hints.
Telling a woman, “I really like you”, won’t be as
effective as saying, “You really like me” in a teasing way.
Do you understand?
I speak in metaphor and story, talk about feelings and
longings, speak code, and try to never speak directly.
Let me give you a few more examples:
If you want to have sex with a woman, you could say,
“Hey, why don’t we have sex?” Go ahead and try that one
sometime and let me know how it works for you.
Or, you could try this... Next time you’re alone with a
new woman, stand up, take her hand, and pull her up to
her feet. Then give her a hug, let go, and sit back down.
After she sits again, say, “I just wanted to hug you.”
Later hug her again and cuddle with her. While cuddling,
smell her neck and tell her how good she smells... and
don’t stop. Within a few minutes she’ll be telling you how
hot she’s getting.
Two different paths to the same outcome... It’s just
that one happens to work about a hundred times better
than the other.
Men like to go out hoping to ‘get laid’. Women like the
idea of being swept away by the moment... especially
when it’s a taboo thing and they shouldn’t be doing it,
etc. The more unplanned things seem, the better. For
instance, if she happens to wind up in your bedroom and
you happen to be massaging her, smelling her, etc. it’s
seen as ‘meant to be’ or something that happened in an
unplanned romantic way, and therefore a good thing to
get swept away by.