I know, I know... sounds too bizarre to be true, but
trust me. Tease and do these things, and you’ll find that
they’ll work like a charm... plus have the added bonus of
being damn fun!
***I have to insert here that I’ve given this advice to
many needy man who have rejected it whole heartedly.
They continue to act needy and not let women go at the
end of the night, when talking on the phone, etc. By not
making themselves scarce and unusual, they make
themselves valueless. Don’t make the same mistake
yourself.
Another one that I’ve used often is ‘Don’t say caring
and affectionate things directly – but say them indirectly’.
Women have a love for metaphors, demonstrations,
stories, gifts, etc.
For instance, saying, “You’re beautiful” 12 times a day
isn’t attractive, but writing a poem that says it and
leaving it somewhere as a surprise is very attractive.
Also, if I’m appreciating something about a woman, I
point to a specific part or thing or detail. Women love it
when you NOTICE things.
This reminds me of a very important point: Women
LOVE it when you THINK about them. If you say, “I was
thinking about you, so I wrote you” the woman will have
something inside go ‘click’! I believe that women like gifts
not because they have value, but because they say, “I
was thinking about you, I have these feelings for you, and
this gift is a symbol for them.”
Does this make sense to you?
I didn’t think so. It didn’t to me, either. But IT’S
TRUE. So start telling women that you were thinking
about them, that you were remembering times with
them, and that something reminded you of them. If you