So it follows that if women are so in tune with body
language, you might as well get some of the basics
together so you’re transmitting the right messages.
My opinion is that women prefer men who are
confident, bordering on arrogant.
Most women will tell you that arrogant men turn them
off, but I’ve found that if you mix humor with a little
arrogance, it’s a killer.
So how do you use your body to telegraph confidence?
Well, first of all walk upright, hold your head up, and
hold your shoulders back.
Next, SLOW DOWN your movements and make
slower, calculated gestures.
Then, make eye contact and keep it when you see
women. Don’t look away until they do and kind of squint
while raising an eyebrow.
I’ve done a lot of work in this area, and I’ve found
that by SLOWING DOWN, I create mystery and intrigue. I
literally practice slowing down my walk, my gestures, how
fast I turn my head, how fast I talk, and even how fast I
blink.
Also, start taking up more space and opening up your
physiology. If you’re seated, keep your legs and arms
uncrossed. Keep your legs far apart and your shoulders
back. Don’t lean forward; lean back.
This might sound a little far out to some people, but
these LITTLE details make all the difference when dealing
with a woman.
It’s amazing how fast most women can detect
insecurity, neediness, and low self-esteem.