I personally believe that when a man is self-confident
(or more specifically, a woman BELIEVES that he is),
women are attracted to him on an UNCONSCIOUS level.
What I mean is that I think this behavior activates a part
of a woman’s brain that can’t help but feel an attraction.
If you’d like a model of confidence, watch some James
Bond movies. You’ll notice that James almost never
smiles, and I can’t remember when I’ve ever seen him
laugh.
But James is the sex symbol of masculine adventure.
Does he do the things that I mentioned above? Of
course. That’s where I learned a lot of them. Ha!
Another way to demonstrate and project confidence is
to PAUSE while you’re talking. Pausing on purpose creates
suspense and tension.
It’s great. If you combine pauses with serious looks,
you will create an air of power and confidence.
For example, you might say, “Well, if I were you, I’d
just tell her what you think” like so... “Well... (pause) if I
were you... (pause and look into eyes with serious look)
I’d just tell her what you think.”
This creates what’s known as a ‘subtext’ to the
communication. On the surface you’re talking about the
normal conversation. But underneath, you’re
communicating suspense, confidence, and mystery.
If you learn how to mix a seductive voice tone and
body language with regular conversation, you’ll find that
you can get women turned on talking about random
things like the weather.