➟ Teach them not to list their IM names publicly, for
example on their social networking pages, or respond
to IMs from people they don’t know personally. Look
for options in their instant messaging programs to
help them set their profiles to private. (See Figure
11-2for such settings in MSN Messenger.)
Figure 11-2
Some IM programs have an option that allows friends
of friends to send instant messages to you. This
option is all about connecting people with common
interests. However, limiting access to your information
is harder using this approach, which is one of the real
concerns about adding strangers to your IM buddy list
Restrict contact to only those you know.
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