Béla’s family background in, 98 , 145
Edith’s married life in, 103 –5
Pressburger, Emeric, 138
Producers, The (movie), 210
rage
Edith’s desire to release her own experience of, 178
forgiveness and, 258
need for survivors to express and let out, 177 –78
partner’s infidelity in marriage and, 196 –200
Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy, 170 –72
Ravensbrück concentration camp, 226
Red Cross, 67
Red Shoes, The (movie), 138 –40, 162
reparations cases, 212
revenge
anger at partner’s infidelity in marriage and expressing, 197 , 199 –200
survivors and fantasies of, 54 , 78 –79, 209
uselessness of, 212
Rogers, Carl, 170 , 172 –73
Roosevelt, Franklin D., 59
Rothschild Hospital, Vienna, 121 –25, 129 , 222
Russia
Béla’s fighting with troops from, 99
World War II and, 21 , 22 , 49 , 87
Saybrook University, 170
secret, family’s hiding of child’s condition as, 182
secrets. trauma from keeping, 5 –6
self-acceptance, 172 –73
Seligman, Martin, 170 , 173
Selye, Dr. Hans, 223
Shapiro, Molly, 152
Shillman, Ilona, 144 , 267
Shillman, Magda. See Gilbert, Magda
Shillman, Nat, 143 , 144 , 165
survival
drawing on inner strength for, 43 –45, 135
Edith’s address to veterans on, 271 –72
Edith’s loss of part of life to, 160
Spitzer, Matilda (aunt), 20 , 82 , 89 , 106 , 107 , 111 , 129 , 133 , 143
survivors