UlTImATE SUccESS GUIdEthe DRIveRs testTo have a successful marriage, you need to find out what are the forces
controlling and directing your spouse’s behavior in your marriage. These
forces that I have called the Drivers are: the Gregarious, the Unique, the
Diversifier and the Cautious.
They represent the “needs” and “wants” that we all have in our subcon-
scious mind. Most people are not aware of the existence of those Driv-
ers, however they are deeply rooted at a subconscious level and from
there, they will control and direct life in general, and in particular your
spouse’s way of relating to you in your marriage.
Therefore, it is of an utmost importance that you discover which ones are
your spouse’s two strongest Drivers amongst the four. In order to find
out what are the two most influential Drivers impacting your spouse’s
behavior in your marriage, you can ask him or her to take the following
copyrighted Drivers Test that I have created:
Directions: In the four tables shown below and in the column to the right
give a rating in points to each statement according to the Rating Guide-
lines. Then, add all the points for each Driver and determine which ones
are the two Drivers that have the highest scores.
RAtIng gUIDelInes:
NEVER ......... 0 POINTS
RARELY ....... 1 POINT
OFTEN .......... 2 POINTS
ALWAYS ....... 3 POINTS