Love and Mate Selection:What’s Love Got To DoWith It??
whitepartof theeye),whichissuggestive
of goodgenes.Masculinefeaturessuchasa
strongjaw,narrowhips,andmuscular
build,whichsuggesthightestosteroneand
fertility,arealsoattractivetowomen.
Denisiuk went on to suggest men have
their own criteria for judging the
attractiveness of women.What men tend
to find attractive in a woman are full lips,
full breasts,and full hips,as well as smaller
waists—all indicative of a woman’s
estrogen level and her ability to bear
children.Sidebar 5.2 presents an
interesting theory of mate selection as it
relates to the sense of smell.
Parental Involvement.Some proponents
of the evolutionary theory of mate
selection suggest the differences in what
men and women find attractive in a mate
are based on their potential parental
involvement.These theorists believe that
since women tend to be the primary
caretakers of their children,they tend to
be more selective about the men they
choose,in order to improve the survival of
their offspring.
Thisevolutionarytheorypurportsthat
menaregenerallylessinvolvedin
childrearing,sotheycanaffordtobeless
choosyaboutamate(Eagly&Wood,
1999).
Psychodynamic Theory
Accordingtothepsychodynamic theory
of mateselection,our parentshavea great
dealtodowith our choiceof a mate.
Psychodynamic theory hasgrown out of
thework of SigmundFreud,CarlJung
(pronouncedYung),andothers.It suggests
SIDEBAR5.2
ISITALL INYOURNOSE?
A Swiss zoologist who tested women’s responses
to men’s sweaty T-shirts has found that women
are attracted to the scent of men who are most
unlike them in an array of immune system genes
calledMHC(majorhistocompatibilitycomplex),
andthatthismayinfluencematechoice.Thesame
type of study conducted with mice found that
pregnant mice prefer the familiar odor of MHC-
similarmales.Itishypothesizedthatnestingwith
relatives may provide support and protection for
the mother and her young. Interestingly, women
who are on the Pill, which raises estrogen levels
andsimulatespregnancy,alsopreferredtheodorof
MHC-similarmales.Thisbringsupthepossibility
thatodorperceptioninpregnancyplaysadifferent
function—that of choosing cooperative partners
andwould-berelatives.
So, what are the benefits of choosing MHC-
dissimilar mates? It seems that MHC-dissimilar
mateshaveahigherfertilityrate,producehardier
offspring with more effective immune systems,
and have a reduced risk of genetic diseases. In
otherwords,fromanevolutionarystandpoint,the
more dissimilar the parents are genetically, the
healthier the offspring, the lower the observance
ofgeneticdisorders,andthegreaterthelikelihood
for survival.Darwin’ssurvivalof thefittest!
Whilethisdoesnotprovidedefinitiveanswers
on mate selection, it does bring up an interesting
question:ismateselectioninoursocietyalteredby
thenumberof youngwomenwhoareonthePill?
Source:Wedekind and Furi 1987,1471–1479.