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Marriage and Family Life: The EarlyYears

procedure.Thoughitisuncommon,itis
possibletocausescarringintheuterusor
weakenthecervix(theentrancetothe
uterus)resultinginsubsequentpregnancy
problems(Pruthi,2007).More
controversialthanabortionislate-termor
partial-birthabortionswhichare
performedaftertheageof viability(theage
atwhichababycouldsurviveoutsidethe

womb). Late-termabortionshavebeen
bannedin36statesand13statesban
abortionsafteracertainnumberof weeks,
usually24(GuttmacherInstitute,2009).
We can read about God’s relationship
with the unborn throughout the Old and
New Testament.For instance:“...I,the
LORD,made you,and I will not forget you”
(Isaiah 44:24).“I knew you before I
formed you in your mother’s womb.
Before you were born I set you apart and
appointed you as my prophet to the
nations”(Jeremiah 1:5).“You made all the
delicate,inner parts of my body and knit
me together in my mother’s womb”
(Psalm 139:13).“But even before I was
born,God chose me and called me by his
marvelous grace...”(Galatians 1:15).
Knowing the Scriptures,as Christians,
we can still struggle with how to respond
to the abortion issue.We may have our
answers down pat until it becomes a
personal issue,such as when a close friend
or loved one experiences an unwanted
pregnancy that would devastate her
current life,or is told she is carrying a
severely deformed child.Then maybe we
aren’t quite so sure of our answers.
BasedonasermonbyHamilton,a
youngPresbyterianpastor,therearethree
thingswemustkeepinmindasweform
ourChristianresponsetoabortion(2003).
One,theGospelfavorswomenand
children.Jesustreatedwomenasthinking
people,worthyof respect,despitethefact
thatitwascontrarytothecultureof the

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When Is It Really A Baby?


Acoupleofyearsago,aCanadiangoosedecided
to nest outside our office door. At that time,
though plentiful in the area, Canadian Geese
were on the endangered list and so were
protected by law.As soon as she laid an egg,she
became vicious with anyone coming or going
outoftheoffice.Shewouldleavethenestandfly
into people on the sidewalk entrance with such
force that in addition to scaring them to death,
would leave large bruises anyplace she was able
tostrikewithherpowerfulbill.Becausethiswas
anofficeandpeopleneededtocomeandgo,the
Department of Natural Resources was called.
The response of the DNR? The egg is protected
under the law and anyone tampering with or
disturbingthateggcouldbeprosecuted.Youcan
moveagoosebeforeshelaysanegg,butoncethe
eggislaid,it isprotectedfrom removal.
I have questioned since that time how we as
humans can view a newly laid goose egg as a
goose, with all the same rights and protection,
yet we as humans grapple with when a baby is
reallyababy.Isitatconception?whentheheart
beginstobeataround5weeks?orwhenthebaby
could survive outside the mother’s uterus?
Sometimes I just don’t understand human
logic.—A confusedprivatepracticetherapist

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