Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves.

A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.

—Ecclesiastes 4:12

ur discussion thus far should lead you to the conclusion marriages and families are

complex, multidimensional entities. Because of the nature of marriage and family,

we have most often targeted the many challenges couples and families face. If marriages

and families were problem-free, we would not need to write this book. Threaded

throughout our analysis you have found a Christian perspective. We have intentionally

included this to highlight positive ways to approach difficulties, as well as to counter any

negative conclusions you might draw. Christians are not “better” than anyone else. They do

not have all the answers and they certainly make many mistakes. Paul the Apostle said,“I

can do everything through Him who gives me strength” (Philippians 4:13). The Christian

perspective holds out that promise: What wecannotdo in our own strength, Godcando in

His strength through us. This chapter will first explore what characteristics are common in

strong families, then compare similarities between family strengths and family resiliency.

The final portion of this chapter includes suggestions for healthy family functioning.

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