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DeFrain, 1999; Stinnett, Stinnett, DeFrain,
& DeFrain, 1999; DeFrain & Stinnett,
2002; DeFrain, Cook, & Gonzalez-Kruger,
2004; Olson & DeFrain, 2006).
The Family Strengths Framework.These
six qualities form the basis for the “family
strengths framework” developed by
DeFrain and Stinnett (2002). This model
includes the following strengths:

Building Strong Families

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Propositions from a Strength Perspective

• All families possess strengths. Families encounter different struggles and have different ways of
  dealing with their struggles. Their strengths help them to adapt.


• If all you look for are problems in a family,then that is what you will find.Look for strengths and
  you will find them.


• Our weaknesses do not help us solve problems; our strengths do.An essential function of a family
  is to solve its own problems. It is important to maximize family strengths rather than focus on
  shortcomings.


• Family structure is not as important as family function.There are many diverse family types,each
  of which can be a strong family. Looking at the family structure tells little about the family’s
  potential for growth.


• A strong marriage is essential to a strong family.The couple’s relationship is the foundation upon
  which the family is built.


• Strong families usually produce strong kids, who then create their own strong families.


• Strengths develop over time.They are tested and grow through family transitions and challenges.


• Periods of crisis can tear families apart or be the catalyst for growth.Strong families work together
  to overcome their problems.


• Most families across the globe have considerable strengths.


• Every family is a culture unto itself. No two families are alike.


• Families from different cultures are more alike than different.


• Strong families are not perfect.All families,even the strongest families,have trouble getting along.


• Families have strong emotional connections.Family members have a sense of“belongingness”to
  one another. This allows families to pull together to withstand adversity.
  Source:Adapted from DeFrain, J.1999; DeFrain, DeFrain, and
  Lepard 1994; Xie, DeFrain, Meredith, and Combs 1996.


• Commitment


• Appreciation and affection


• Positive communication


• Enjoyable time together


• Spiritual well-being


• Ability to cope with stress and crisis