Chapter 10

Disintegration and Looseness

Terriblesortsofdisintegrationandloosenesshaveaffectedmostofthe
modern families. Exaggeration in using the various sorts of pleasures
andpluralofprohibitivemattersledtomoraldownfallsandbehaviors.
Runningbehindamusementcausesincoherentgenerationsthatlackthe
meaningsofhumanandsocialvaluesandidealities.Children,whenno-
ticetheirparentsaddictedtotheintoxicantsandothervices,willsurely
haveill behaviorsandmisguidance.Aneducationistsays, “Familyhas
generallybecome a humblesphere of education. Modernparents have
exceededthebordersintheirnaivete,agitation,weakness,orawkward-
ness. Mostof such parentsmay convey thosedefects to theirchildren.
Mostchildrenreceivetheillmanners,corruption,quarreling,andaddic-
tiontointoxicantsthroughtheirhousesandfamilies.Othersmayreceive
suchmannersthrough theirfriends.So,itisnotexaggerativeto decide
that mostof the modernparents ignorethe proper ways of education
disregarding their social class. Schools have fallen behind in fulfilling
their duties. Teachers’behaviors are not much different from those of
parents.”.
Inmostcases,theaberranceoftheearlyyoungisbaseduponthefam-
ilydisintegrationandlooseness.Itiscorrecttoaffirmthatthefamilyre-
formationisprecededtotheothereducationalfactors.Familyisthefirst
school that has a direct influence on behaviors and guidance.