The Educational System In Islam

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Duties of Families

Familyisresponsibleforeducatingthe childrencorrectlyinstandard
criteriathatare awayfrom aberrance.Thereisa numberofduties and
obligations of families.


First,Familiesareresponsibleforsavingthefactorsofsettlement,ami-
ability, and tranquillity in home, and removing any sort of violence,
malice,andantagonism.Theaberranceofmajorityoftheaggressivechil-
dren,whichwouldleadtocriminality,wastheresultofthehomeunset-
tlement. An educationist says, “If we visit jails, brothels, and insane
asylums—thenvisitschoolsforcounting theunsuccessful,the quarrel
makers,the politicallyextremists, andthe abnormal,we willdefinitely
noticethatmostofsuchindividualsweredeprivedofthefamilysettle-
ment. They must have been lacking tranquil houses in which there
shouldbecompassionatefathersandkindmothersthatdonotexceedin
dallianceorseverity.Thecorruptionofsuchhouseshascreatedsuchpic-
tures of social disorder and purposeless and unsettled generations.”.
Amiabilityandcompassion to sonshave the greatestbearing onthe
soundcompositionof individuals.Mentalcomplexes are theinevitable
resultincasefatherspaynoattentiontothisfact.Sonsarenotreadyto
acceptanyadviceorguidanceunlessthereisasortofsincereamiability
amongthemembersoffamilies.Psychologistshaveproventhatthecom-
plexes that emerge in the period of early childhood, especially those
complexesthatareoriginatedfromtheparents’badrelationswiththeir
sons, are the most serious and the preliminary to personal disorders..
Mutualconcordanceandamiabilityhelpincreatingtheintellectualma-
turityandthepersonalboons.Dr.GilasThomassays,“Despitethepar-
ents’bigresponsibilityofguidingandtrainingtheirchildren,itisquite
importanttorealizethatsuchpracticesshouldneverreplaceanotheres-
sentialtaskthatparentsmustdo.Thistaskisthecreationofanamiable
moodthatisshadedbycare,andsurroundedbycompassionandjustice.
Ifparents showdearthinrevivingsuchamoodin whichthenormsof
compositionareilluminated,theywilldeprivethechildrenofanuncom-
pensated constituent. Religion, society, and school play a remarkable
roleineducatingtheyouth.However,noneofthesefactorscansavethe
impressiveemotionsthe centerof whichis home,andthe perfumesof
which are smelt among families only.”.

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