Body Language Secrets A Guide During Courtship & Dating

184 BODY LANGUAGE SECRETS

YOU'RE COMING ON TOO STRONG

Averts her eyes

Nervous smile

Leans or backs away

Touches throat, necklace

Moves head to vertical

Begins to fidget

Looks around room

Touches her face or head

Turns front of body away

Picks at hand or finger

Hands begin to clench, grip

Raises drink in front of her

THAT'S ENOUGH, GO AWAY!

Looks away often Shifts posture, turns away

Becomes tense Stops smiling, starts frowning

Brushes imaginary lint Sits up straight

Crosses arms, legs Picks up drink

Locks ankles under chair Hands close, clench

Drums fingers, swings leg, taps foot.

Here's how you communicate The Right Attitude

without words.

SLIGHTLY ALOOF

Sometimes open posture

Usually body angled away

Rarely lean toward her

Neutral or pleasant face

Preen now and again

Relaxed posture

Rarely touch her

Polite smiles

HIGHLY INTERESTED
All openness
Body facing her
Always lean toward her
Moderately serious
Preen often
Erect, ready posture
Touch as often as possible
Broad smiles
Occasional, intense eye contact Look her in the eyes
Caress yourself once Caress yourself regularly
Hold your glass steady Finger glass sensually
SIGNS OF BOREDOM
Looking at wristwatch Doodling
Asking what time it is Drumming fingertips
Tapping foot Swinging leg
Blank stare Head in hand
Drooped eyelids Hand on side of face or head

Success With

Young Women Workshop

Joanna, three other young women and Don work with

no more than 30 guys to help you develop the style and

look needed to attract young women.

First, you have to look tike someone she wants on top of her.

R. DON STEELE, How To Date Young Women For Men Over 35

Don begins as if you were at work. Men, in John Mol-

loy's business outfit are constructively critiqued by Don

from their shirt collars to their shoelaces, fingernails, watch,

ring, belt buckle, belt length, sock length and so on and on

and on and on.

In the real world, the judgement a young woman, makes

about a man happens in this sequence:

From Across The Room

Up Close

How He Moves

How He Introduces Himself

How He Talks,

We duplicate that order. The men stand at the distant

end of a room. Young women enter, sit at tables and fill out

forms (following pages). The young women leave. The men

move closer. Young women re-enter and fill out forms.

The young women sit at four distant corners of the

room. Men enter one at a time. Each walks way across the

room to the farthest young woman and introduces himself.

Then walks to the next corner, and introduces himself and

so on. Young women fill out the forms after each guy.

Cologne Sniff Test. Men sit facing the wall. A form is

taped to the back of their chair. Each man puts his first

choice cologne on the back of his neck. Women enter and

randomly go from man to man, rate his scent from Ugh! to

Take Me! with OK in the midway. Repeated with second

cologne on left hand and third choice on right cheek.