Body Language Secrets A Guide During Courtship & Dating

(^112) BODY LANGUAGE SECRETS
garding what to do when she's negative.
Men, after the first date, if she doesn't want to go
out with you again, she won't no matter what you
propose. Don't chase. You have The Right Attitude.
PERSUASION IN ACTION
Each of us has seen the supreme climax of court-
ship. We all share the knowledge of perfection.
Rhett stops talking, sweeps Scarlett off her feet and
climbs the stairs with her in his arms.
Men, that can be you, if you follow the advice in
the next chapter.
To many women, and some men, the next chapter
is shocking as well as depressing. It is aimed at di-
vorced men who were married for a substantial
amount of time, thus do not understand the realities
that single women face at the beginning of the 21st
Century.
However, many women who reviewed early ver-
sions of the book appreciated the chapter. The gist
of their comments was, "Yeah, I don't like it, but I
can see some of that in myself. Especially about
wanting him to prove it by changing to nice."
Everyone, please persist during, On Not Being
Too Nice.
Treat me mean, treat me cruel
but love me,
ELVIS
On Not Being Too Nice
Men, not being too nice is a mandatory, all inclu-
sive mandate you must follow to have The Right At-
titude.
Of course she wants you to treat her nicely, fairly
and with respect. However, what you consider nice,
fair and respectful is rarely what she hopes for.
Why? Because every woman is an individual human
being with her own story to tell, her own personal
goals, values and morals, just like you.
She has a unique history of bad and good times at
the hand of males, beginning with Daddy, followed
by boyfriends, fiancees, and ex-husbands. Many
have also had an ego-crushing, heart-breaking expe-
rience with a master manipulator like the profes-
sional game player, Randy RedPorsche.
Women, if this information does not apply to you,
ignore it. Caution! If it does apply, don't take it
personally. I'm merely reporting a well-known,
documented phenomenon. However, if it does apply,
a heart-felt re-examination of your values and ex-
pectations is in order.
I love being nice. It is my nature to be nice to any-
one I like but even more so to women I enjoy. By