146 BODY LANGUAGE SECRETSMontel Williams, Jenny Jones, Jane Whitney and
Danny Bonaduce TV shows and done over 250 radio
interviews.
FROM THE AUTHOR
Credentials? Been there and back, plus I've made
every possible mistake but learned from it all. But, I
wrote it all down, the successes, the failures, the frus-
tration, the joys, the pain. It's all there for you to learn
from. Since 1972, when I was 32, I've only been in-
volved with young women: married to, divorced from,
lived with and dated. Now, at 58, I am married to and
loving Joanna Bardot Lopez, 24. If you want truth, not
pie-in-the-sky promises this book is for you. The Re-
vised Edition includes all original material plus every-
thing else that I've learned the hard way. Every year
hundreds of guys write thanking me for turning their
dating lives around. Many suggest I delete "Young"
from the title because much of the strategy, tactics,
methods and advice apply equally to women of all
ages, I agree, but the title gets me on the radio and on
TV, necessary to sell books.
FROM THE BACK COVER
FOR THE MAN WHO REFUSES To BUY
OR BULLSHIT YOUNG WOMEN
Steele tells you bluntly who she is, where she is,
then how to meet, talk with and date her. The princi-
ples are based entirely on understanding a young
woman and her real motivation to date a man your
age. Learn why she wants and needs to be your lover,
then how to let it happen, not make it happen.
Understanding 18-24, 25-29 And 30-34 Women
Identifying Which Ones Are Interested In Older Men
Why She's Afraid And How To Overcome Her Fears
How To Act, Dress And Talk To Interest And Attract Her
Where To Find Her And How To Meet Her So You Can Talk
With Her NaturallyHow To Date Young Women 147What To Always Say, Never Say
Courting When She Knows There's No Wedding
In Your Future
Getting That Tough First Date
How To Behave On Dates With Her
Seducing Her
Sustaining Your Affair With HerLENGTHY EXCERPTS
This is not a book of interviews with young women
and a writer's disguised guess as to what it all means.
This is a how-to book by a man who has done it for the
past 27 years and continues to do it.
I explain how to make your fantasies come true but
right now that's exactly what they are, fantasies. You
are going to learn how young women think, what's im-
portant to them and what they want from a man.
You'll know what you have to be and look like to at-
tract her, I explain where to find her, how to meet her,
what to say to her, principles of courting when you're
20 years older than she is, what her real motives are
for dating you, how to behave on dates and how to se-
duce her. I tell you the must do's as well as the no
no's.
You're going to know what she has to offer and
what you absolutely cannot expect from her. You will
end up knowing what it really takes for a fortyish man
to date a twentyish woman. My experiences are here
for you to learn from, good ones, funny ones and hor-
ror stories. When done reading you'll avoid many of
the mistakes I made as you learn the complex, delicate
rituals and courtship practices insisted upon by a
young woman interested in an older man.
But you have to learn by doing. If you want to
break, then ride a horse, a wild young mare, you can't
read a book then sit on the corral fence theorizing
about it. You have to climb on and get thrown, again
and again. Eventually you'll realize you must talk gen-