150 BODY LANGUAGE SECRETS
ual. A young woman's not only worried about being
seen talking with you. She has far more to lose by
dating you. If her friends find out she will be ostra-
cized. No young man in her circles will consider her as
a wife, feeling she is used merchandise, some old
man's cast off. The way our world works people only
smirk about you but they strongly condemn her, call-
ing her sick, a gold digger, promiscuous or a slut. With
what you learn from me, and patience, her view of you
as socially dangerous can be transformed into the re-
alization you are discreet, subtle and sensitive to her
situation.
Emotional Danger. She thinks you're so powerful,
so knowledgeable, you will be able to sexually use her,
then discard her. This is her biggest fear. Although
this sounds impossible to overcome, it isn't. I spend
fewer pages on this than the others. Trial and error,
mostly error, will teach you what to do.
Interesting And Attracting Her. I don't mean to
be glib but after you know how to deal with her fears
you only have to be yourself. Of course you have to
look like someone she'd like to talk with but that's all
explained. Then you have to religiously follow the Ten
Commandments Of Meeting and the Eleven Com-
mandments Of Courtship. You must also have An-
swers To Inevitable Questions down pat.
Her Motives. You're asking her to go against eve-
rything parents, boyfriend, church, society and girl
friends have drilled into that pretty young head and
heart of hers. Why will she do it?
One element of her motivation is the desire to be
seriously fucked, the way she's heard it's supposed to
be done. As you now know her best experience does
not begin to measure up to what she's heard from
other girls, read in Cosmopolitan or seen in the mov-
ies. And, "fer sure," there is the stereotype of older
men as knowledgeable, experienced lovers.
She knows there must be more to it. But this is one
of her darkest, most closely held secrets, slightly be-
How To Date Young Women 151hind masturbating and feeling terribly lonely. She fan-
tasizes what a "real man" would do with her. If she's a
bit drunk she talks to her closest girl friend about
what it should be like. Don't get this wrong. She's not
obsessed with sex but wonders if she's missing some-
thing important.
So far her boyfriend's best efforts aren't much. He
wants his cock sucked all the time. He's reluctant to
give her head and has no idea a clit isn't a miniature
dick, if he even knows where it is. He lasts two min-
utes after entering her. She and her contemporaries
know, on some level, there's more to it.
Part of the attraction is your age. It makes you dif-
ferent, plain and simple.And now for the sequel... VOLUME II.