Body Language Secrets A Guide During Courtship & Dating

(^176) BODY LANGUAGE SECRETS
males know who they are by displaying:
Expensive, exotic automobiles, yachts, aircraft
Expensive, fashionable attire and accessories
Expensive homes in prestigious neighborhoods
Expensive gifts to highly desirable women.
The operative word is expensive. Money buys
food, shelter, safety and long term security for the
female and the children. Among this group of males,
there is competition for the most desirable females.
As always, the winners get to choose.
And so it goes, on down the socio-economic lad-
der. Within each income group, males compete for
the most desirable females in their group. It is no
different from our hunter-gatherer ancestors. The
best hunter-warrior got first choice. The second best
got second choice and so on. Survival of the fittest.
The most desirable females selected by victorious
males in every culture have always had the same
two outstanding attributes. Hugh Hefner capitalized
on that fact, sold it to males of all ages, and became
a billionaire.
THE MOST DESIRABLE FEMALES
Females selected by high status males in all cul-
tures since the beginning of homo sapiens invariably
have the same two attributes:
(1) FERTILITY
(2) PROLIFIC REPRODUCTIVE CAPABILITY
In today's culture, just as in the culture of our
hunter-gatherer ancestors, age and physical condi-
tion identifies the most desirable females. They all
have these attributes:
Trim, strong bodies
White, sound teeth
Hands with tight skin
Upright, firm breasts
Lustrous, clear finger nails
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Faces with smooth, clear skin
Solid buttocks and flat stomachs
Bright eyes with extremely clear whites,
ADVERTISING HER INTEREST
We humans cherish the belief that we are differ-
ent from animals. This commonly held view says
that we have free will and thus are in control of our
destiny and our behavior.
Yet each month, the human female's brain
chemistry and body chemistry change for a few
days. She thinks differently. She acts differently.
She even dresses differently.
The shift occurs as her egg breaks away from the
ovary and begins its descent down the fallopian
tube. It's ovulation—the homo sapiens variation of
mammalian estrus—coming into heat. Only during
this brief time during the month, can she send her
DNA into the future.
Robert Wright, in The Moral Animal, investigates
free will versus evolutionary determinism. Wright
presents convincing evidence that evolution controls
far more of our individual lives than we care to ad-
mit or even examine.
A scientific study, cited by Wright, documented
that ovulating young women subconsciously dress to
expose far more skin at events with courtship possi-
bilities than non-ovulating young women. Ovulating
females wear deeper necklines, higher hemlines,
shorter sleeves as well as bare midriffs and backs.
One last time, you cannot not communicate.