Life Skills & Leadership: Unit 2, Session 2: Positive Communication | Page 26 of 127
A. Are You a Listener?
Participants rate their own abilities as an active listener.
- Post Room Signs around the learning space and ask participants to stand under the appropriate sign in
response to your statements. Say:
“I’d like to give you a chance to think about what you have learned about listening and communication
in this class and the last time we met. I’ll read a statement and you can stand under the sign that best
describes your response to the statement.”
- Read the statements below, allowing time for participants to make their choice and move.
I am careful about where I look when listening to someone.
I have trouble understanding what the person is feeling as they speak.
I am aware of the position of my body when I am listening.
I try not to interrupt the person when I am listening.
I have difficulty identifying my own feelings when I am listening to someone.
I pay attention to the facial expressions of the person speaking.
It’s not easy to use my voice, without words, to show I am listening.
I know how to encourage someone to talk more.
I get confused when I try to summarize what someone says.
- Distribute paper and pens or pencils to participants. Say:
“You just made an evaluation about yourself as a listener. On your paper, please write one listening skill
that you do well and are happy about. Also write one listening skill you would like to improve.”
Note: The activity “Are You a Listener” serves as an assessment of Learning Objectives 1 and 2 and as a review of Learning
Objectives 1 and 2 in Session 1: Listening Skills.
B. Summary
Ask participants to sign their paper and conclude by saying:
“You all have learned a lot about positive communication and have had a chance to improve your skills.
I’ll be interested to hear what happens when you use those skills outside of our class! Remember that
direct communication, indirect communication, and I Statements are ways to make sure your message
gets across and lessens the chance that strong emotions will get in the way. ”
References:
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Facilitator Notes for Future Improvement
Date & Facilitator Name: [What went well? What would you do differently? Did you need more/less time for certain
activities?]