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Unauthorized duplication or distribution is strictly prohibited. Visit http://www.datingdynamics.com for more information.- Erratic behavior – Unable to control her impulses or her emotions from
moment to moment. One moment she’s manically happy, the next she’s
depressed and suicidal. - Exhibits neurotic patterns in most of her day-to-day life. Obsessive
tendencies, the inability to escape thoughts of worry, gloom, panic - Takes medications – Lithium, Prozac, Valium
- Has been accused of stalking before
- Very few – if any – friends
- When you feel your tactics are totally ineffective on her, there’s a good
chance you’ve got a nut-case.
The Gold-digger/Super-ambitious: She wants money, as much as she can get. She’s
not necessarily going to work to acquire it, either. This type is preoccupied with material
possessions. She is either looking for a sugar daddy, or another method of easily obtaining
wealth and power
- Asks questions about your status and power, many about money
- Talks about income and possessions – to the extreme
- Work-a-holic
- Superficial/name-drops
- Insists on nice restaurants, expensive hotels, expensive jewelry
- Tends to be in debt, or spends beyond her means
- Obsessed with appearances and image
- Obsessed with connections and maintaining a huge group of “friends”
Unable to Commit – The Female Player: This woman has all the dating techniques
down, and she uses Challenge to her benefit. She may not be ready for a relationship or
monogamous dating, or she may just be unsure of her own intentions or goals. Sometimes this
woman just likes the attention and validation she gets from having as many guys as she can
get.
- Excessively stand-offish, well out of reach
- Teases you with the occasional date, but most often you’re left frustrated
- What she says rarely matches her behavior, and you’re left confused
- She’s a slave to the “good times,” looking for the next party
- Often younger and a social butterfly
Violent and Abusive: She starts out moderate, with an occasional teasing insult, but
she escalates rapidly. She is only feeling loved if she is in the center of a Tasmanian-Devil
whirlwind, drama on the level of Tommy Lee and Pamela Anderson. She’ll do whatever it takes
to get you angry enough to react and fuel the fire. Love isn’t love until it hurts.
- Prone to aggression and violence – throws and breaks objects
- May attack you physically in moments of anger
- Swears a lot at you and uses name-calling – verbally abusive
- Likes rough sex – to the extreme
- Angers easily. Interacting with her is like handling delicate explosives
- Behavior usually stems from an abusive childhood