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APPENDIX I: ATTITUDE ADJUSTERS.......................................................................................................
From time to time, we all need a little help keeping our attitude straight, especially in the
light of all the craziness we’re faced with in dating. Use these sayings and Truths to keep your
game face on. Feel free to print them and keep them in your wallet for inspiration.
Never put all your hope in one woman. The one who cares the least controls the relationship! You’re better off alone than with the wrong woman! Can you imagine her as the mother of your children? Truth is ALL that matters in the end. Work on your own life. Not hers. Stay out of her head! LISTEN! Pay attention to what she’s telling you. PATIENCE! Emulate the idols: James Bond, Cary Grant, Sean Connery, Harrison Ford -- BE THE MAN. Let her GO! If she has the interest level, she’ll be back, and on your terms. It’s the only way. NEVER forget you were born without her. And that there are hundreds more like her and thousands
more that are even better than her. Keep your emotional distance, or she will manipulate you. Stay in the Safe Zone! Don’t let her manipulate your behavior. Don’t push ... Lead! Never ask her for anything, instead suggestively entice and let her give to you. If she doesn’t give it
willingly, she may not have it. Forget what you WANT. There is only what is. Accept it and make it work for you. All unhappiness stems from the desire for things to be different than the way they are.