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APPENDIX VII: BODY LANGUAGE...........................................................................................................
The simplest body language tip I can give you is that if a woman is actively engaged in
talking with you, you are usually aware of it, and you keep moving forward. However, in certain
environments, she may be more difficult to read. Here are some indicators you can use to help
you figure out what’s going on.
I’M INTERESTED LATER, DUDE
Occasional glance(s) Never sneaks a peek
Looks at you a few times Fleeting/avoiding eye contact
Holds your gaze for a moment Looks away quickly
Looks down, then away Looks away, eyes level
Posture changes, looks alert Posture stays the same
Crosses arms Arms are open, uncrossed
Adjusts hair, attire Does no adjusting
Faces you Turns body away
Tilts head Head stays vertical
Eyes narrow slightly Eyes remain normal
Smiles Neutral, polite face
Mirrors your posture Posture unchanged
Eyes brighten Normal or dull eyes
Licks her lips Mouth closed, presses lips together
KEEP TALKING SEE YA
Alert, energetic Tense, restless, impatient
Pupils dilated Normal or small pupils
Gradually opens posture Posture remains closed
Lowers drink Keeps drink high
Touches herself gently Grips or pinches herself
Caresses objects Squeezes, taps objects
Crosses and uncrosses leg Legs remain crossed
Flashes of open palm Back of hand gestures
Crossed legs steady Swings crossed legs
Dangles shoe Keeps shoe on
Hands never touch face Touches face
Touches you any reason Never touches you, seems to avoid touching
Feet firmly on floor Feet on edges or toes
Loosens anything Tightens anything
Leans forward Leans away
Steady hands, feet Tapping, drumming
