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Unauthorized duplication or distribution is strictly prohibited. Visit http://www.datingdynamics.com for more information.especially when you spent your high school years throwing a football around and
sneaking peeks at Penthouse. That is, you didn’t stand a chance ... until now.- Any effort you take to improve the situation is a win for both of you. You’re seeking
to improve the chances that both of you can get what you want and need. Everyone
comes out ahead. - Both men and women are on their best behavior in the early stages. You have to
present your best self so that you can have the chance to gradually reveal yourself to
the other person. This book will teach you how to do this in the least destructive way.
And in the end, you’ll never be able to hide the real you from her, anyways. It will
come through. - Remember that the Three S’s – Self-confidence, Self-discipline, and a Sense of
Humor – are behaviors. Exhibiting them may feel uncomfortable at times, but that
does not make them fake or false to who you are. Only you can control the
presentation of your personality. And it’s up to you to present yourself in the best
possible way so that she gets the right idea of who you are.
Everybody uses psychological tactics and strategies every day, whether we’re aware of
them or not. The concepts I’m about to tell you about have been going on since the beginning of
male-female socialization. Nothing I show you will hurt or de-value women in any way. The
question isn’t about using manipulation; it’s about whether you will recognize it when it is used
on you ... and will you know how to handle it?
As long as there is no intentional harm, all that really matters in the end is the
results. The ends do justify the means, as long as the means are not mean.
Pop quiz, hot shot. Review these two situations:- You meet Ms. Right and turn her on to you, showing her your best and giving her the
chance to feel attracted and interested enough to get to know you better, sleep with
you, whatever. Ms. Right is yours. - You meet Ms. Right and completely screw it up because you came on too strong, or
never demonstrated a backbone, or any of a hundred other mistakes. Ms. Right
never returns your calls again.
Now, which result do you prefer?
I thought so.No one will ensure your happiness but you.Another part of the Principle of Truth is that what you really want to happen is what
actually happens.
Think about it: Whatever you really wanted in life, you got. Remember that bike you
wanted as a kid? You couldn’t stop thinking about it, and you bugged your parents non-stop,
and when you didn’t get it for Christmas, you saved your money and sold your blood plasma
until you could afford it, and then you went out and bought it.