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do not like unkempt and shaggy facial hair, especially when it makes you look like a lunatic
vagrant.
Hair on the rest of your body should be severely scrutinized. You should not have
excessive hair on your back or neck, even if it requires waxing from time to time. When it comes
to your nose and ears, you should trim away all unnecessary hair. Also, your eyebrows should
not meet in the middle, if you can possibly avoid it. Most women do appreciate chest hair, more
often than not, so don’t be too concerned about that area. As for your nether-regions, you
should trim your pubic hair to a manageable level as well. Not only for good hygiene, but it can
actually make your plumbing look a bit longer if it’s not obscured.


Nails
Your nails play a significant part in the overall appearance of your hands, and they do
reflect your personality to some degree. For maximum flexibility, nails should be kept trimmed
neatly to within 1/16 of an inch or shorter. Any longer than this and you tend to raise more
questions than you answer. If you are a chronic nail-biter, you may want to look into breaking
this habit, as it tends to make your fingers look ragged and not very soothing to touch. Keep all
nails free of dirt. You may even consider a manicure – just be sure to skip the nail polish. Your
toenails should be kept trimmed and neat at all times.


Mouth
Your mouth should be as appealing as you can make it, after all, you want her lips
spending a great deal of time here, don’t you?
Your lips should never be dry or chapped. There are plenty of lip balms out there to help
keep them moist. As for the inside, you want to be sure to keep your teeth and gums clean (yes,
brush after each meal, just like the toothpaste tubes say.) Don’t forget to brush your tongue, as
this is where a great deal of bacteria develops. Flossing is also a necessity, not an option. Use
mouthwash regularly, and if you have a problem with bad-breath, you may want to discuss it
with a dentist. There is nothing more unattractive to a woman than having to tolerate foul breath.
Make sure you visit a dentist every six months for a cleaning.
If you are a coffee or tea drinker, you should be sure to make sure your teeth are not
discolored or stained. There are plenty of off-the-shelf bleaching products available that work
very well, as well as treatments available from your dentist.


Skin
Your skin is the largest organ in your body, and is the part you’re most concerned about
getting her in contact with. Be sure to do a once-over on your body to ensure that you aren’t too
rugged for her. You don’t have to make your skin like velvet, but hard, cracked, callused skin is
not attractive to a woman. You want her to want to get close to you, and that means taking care
of areas you may not have considered before. Use lotion on your hands and any other areas to
get your skin soft enough to handle. If you have any blemishes or acne, there are many
products on the market that will help you keep the breakouts to a minimum, and help you make
them a little less noticeable.
Remember that women are keenly sensitive to touch, and look forward to touching men
they’re interested in.

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