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manage the ritual gift economy known as lena
dena, practiced during life-course rituals, particu-
larly weddings (Eglar 1960). Werbner shows that
the translocation of lena dena to Britain was the
product of gendered power struggles between mar-
ried women and their spouses: migrant women
fought to recapture this domain, often against the
explicit wishes of husbands who regarded ritual
gifting as wasteful. In Manchester, women entered
the British labor market, often as clothing machin-
ists, to finance their pivotal role as symbolic trans-
actors of gold, cloth, food, and money between
households. The scale and cost of celebrations, par-
ticularly weddings, is huge.
Writing on recently arrived Moroccans in Italy,
Salih found a preference for holding wedding ritu-
als in Morocco, true also of Moroccans in France,
Belgium, and Holland, despite lengthy sojourning
(2003, 83). Such rituals serve to reintegrate migrants
symbolically into their home communties, while
enabling them to display their newly acquired
wealth and Western lifestyles. Weddings are occa-
sions for family reunions of migrants settled in dif-
ferent European countries.
For Pakistani migrants, the female mehndi (henna)
pre-wedding ritual is the most elaborate within a
complex cycle of rituals. Werbner describes the
symbolic transformations occurring during the
mehndiwhich, she argues, move bride and groom
from a state of culturally constrained “coldness” to
framed “heat,” in anticipation of the consumma-
tion of the marriage. Equivalent female henna rituals
known as kina gecesi, laylat al-™innà±or mehndi,
are held by Turkish, Moroccan, and Surinamese
Hindustani Muslim migrants in the Netherlands
(Dessing 2001). The female dresser, negaffa, paints
the Moroccan bride with henna and plays an
important role in the wedding reception, in which
the bride changes her clothes several times, and is


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carried around the hall amidst singing and ullulat-
ing. As among Pakistanis, weddings involve elabo-
rate exchange relations.
Importantly, much like in India (Raheja and
Gold 1994), the Pakistani mehndiis an occasion
for bawdy singing, sexual clowning, and masquer-
ade, in what might be termed a resistive or counter-
hegemonic commentary both on the status of
women in Muslim Punjabi society, and of Pakistani
migrants within British society. Such clowning is
not simply reflexive; it fulfils a symbolic transfor-
mational role in the ritual process, occurring at a
key liminal moment, before the clown is banished
amidst gales of laughter by the women (Werbner
2002a). Mehndi rituals allow for inventiveness and
cultural hybridity, while revitalizing through aes-
thetic performance the substances, foods, music,
and dance of the homeland. The groom is subjected
to hazing, sexual joking, and forced feeding by the
female bride receivers, underlining the power and
control of Punjabi women over the domestic
domain. As Raheja and Gold also argue, such ritu-
als highlight the uninhibited expressive sexuality
of South Asian women. Not surprisingly, mehn-
dis are disapproved of by Muslim reformists and
Islamists.
A key issue concerns the migrants’ move from
initial isolation to sociability. Saifullah Khan (1977)
argued that the supportive world of village women
is disrupted when Mirpuri migrant women move to
Bradford and are kept isolated in strict purdah in
their homes. This is, however, only a stage: the need
is to recognize the intersection of the labor migration
cycle with the familial life cycle (Werbner 2002a).
As families mature, women begin to develop exten-
sive social networks, expanded further as wed-
dings, funerals, and khatam Qur±àn multiply.
The movement in purdah can be represented dia-
gramatically (after Werbner 2002a, 150).

DOMESTIC LIFE CYCLE PHASE


Young family

Isolated women Secluded women, but frequent
contact with female kinswomen or
friends (sometimes work)
MIGRATION Initial _____ Settled
PHASE
Isolated, but for a Extensive women-centered
relatively short period interhousehold network
(rarely work) (often work)


Mature family
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