The Art of Approaching

(Rick Simeone) #1

Examples


The “Whammy” Opener


This is an e-mail that I like to send out that always Opens girls very well.


I call this the “Whammy” because I get maybe 5 or 6 responses from every 10 I send out
with this one.


The trick is, with any e-mail you send out on a dating service, to be light and funny. You
may want to come up with your own following the structure I lay out above instead of
using this one. Nothing’s worse than sending out a letter to find out some girl got the
exact same thing from a buddy you shared it with (and this book is sharing this with a lot
of guys!).


So here’s the Opener:


Hey little miss (insert her screen name here),

Either you’re just using that name to hide from the police, or your parent’s were
awful cruel to you. Anyway, you’ve probably gotten a few dozen e-mails from
losers who are freshly divorced from their 8th wife, have 5 bratty kids, a sexy
picture of an overly-hairy back on their profile, and who just got promoted to
flipping burgers at McDonalds. Either that, or you’re being hit on by the
geriatrics who discovered the Internet and Metamucil at that same time and are
feeling as virile as a twenty year old.

Well, I’m not going to spend too much time talking about myself, but I’m good
looking, muscular, funny, exciting, adventurous, cool, a real man’s man -- the
kind of man other men want to be, and women want to be with! But most of all,
out of everything else, my best trait is... I’m modest. ☺

So if you’re looking to further your career at McDonalds, or think that Liver
Spots are really, really hot, then I’m not the guy for you. But if you want to meet
up and have a great time and some great conversation, then we should get
together. If you think you can handle it, that is!

Talk soon,

(your name)
(your e-mail address)

I usually like to include her screen name in the e-mail because it personalizes it a little bit,
but it also helps you keep track of who responds to you.


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