The Art of Approaching

(Rick Simeone) #1
This is one where you paint your target as your ultimate fan who borderlines on
stalking you. This works best for women who are by themselves, or when you’ve
isolated a woman into talking to you by herself.

You: “Hey, you like music?”

Her: “Yeah.”

You: “I’ve always wanted to be a musician. What kind of music you
like?”

Her: blah, blah

You: “Yeah, me too! I’d be the most famous <her favorite type of
music> musician ever! And you, you can be the president of my fan club.
It’d be great. You could follow me around asking for my autograph, tell
everyone how sexy I am, and no matter what I do, you can act like it’s the
greatest thing you’ve ever seen! But the minute you start following me to
my home and asking to have my baby is the minute I have to fire you, so
you better be good and just admire me from afar.”

You can create variations of this opener to be a “movie” star or a “sports” star or
what have you, but you basically want to cast yourself as someone of immense
value, and your target as someone who is obsessed with you. It’s a fun way to
instantly create interest within your target.

Even if she doesn’t go along with it, it’ll set the stage for further interactions.

--The “Goldfish” Opener


This Opener works well with girls who are dancing, but not quite on the dance
floor.

Basically, you see a girl and her friends gyrating off by themselves, and take the
opportunity to walk up to them and say:

“You guys are so cute! You’re dancing around like little goldfish flopping
out of water! Ha ha ha. Here, stand back, stand back, let me show you all
how it’s done!”

And then proceed to do the Macarena, or some other lame dance. It’ll have the
girls laughing and having a good time.

This is a great Opener because you cast them as bad dancers and yourself as an
authority, and then you undermine that and put everyone on the same playing
field in a fun way that really engages the girls.

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