CONSTRUCTING YOUR OWN STORIES
Eventually, you’ll want to create stories of your own to tell to other people after you start
interacting with them. It’s through these stories that the people you talk to will get to
know what kind of a person you are. It is also how they will determine if they have a
good time with you or not.
Usually, you will want stories that cater to a specific outcome. For instance:
- Stories that are funny and entertaining
- Stories that are romantic
- Stories that are seductive
- Stories that are exciting
The best is when you have a story that relates to something you’re talking to the other
person about. For example, let’s say you’re talking to another man about the stock
market, and you have a story about how you made a crazy investment, against the advice
of all your friends and experts, that paid off really well. Something like that can
communicate to the man you’re talking to that you’re a risk taker, you stick to your guns,
believe in yourself, and are successful.
I recommend using as many “real life” stories as you can as opposed to making things up.
You can get away with embellishing a little bit, but don’t blow it out of proportion. The
more stories you can tell someone about yourself, the more insight they get into you, and
the more they want to share their own stories in return.
Here’s the breakdown on how to construct your own story:
- Figure out what you want to communicate
- Choose your main character
- Determine the main character’s action
- Plot out the details of your story
- Know what obstacles the main character will face and how he overcomes them
- Know how your story ends
Once you’ve figured out all these elements, you have your story! The only thing left to
do is figure out how to properly tell it.
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