“Are you glad you did it?” I asked.
“Hell yes!” he said. “I feel like now that I know more about what it’s like, I realize how
stupid I was being before. I mean, it was fun, but it was just an act, like working out at
the gym or something.”
“That’s right,” I said. “Its not until you find a girl you really care about when it starts to
be something special.”
“I like the girl I did it with,” said Kevin. “But she’s not the one for me. But I like her
well enough, and I’ll continue to see her. But I want to keep searching and keep
learning.”
“As you should,” I said.
Remember that at the end of the day, sex is a basic human need – especially for men. It’s
something we desire and crave, and must do. To deny it, is to deny your masculinity.
Whether you’re a virgin, or a man who hasn’t had sex in a long time, it is important to set
aside the fairy tales we’ve bought into and focus on what it is that can truly help us –
learning about sex. Learning about our bodies. Learning about women.
Once you focus on that, you’ll never have to deal with the Virginity Myth again.
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