In short: Zan had created a harem for himself.
One time, Zan showed me some pictures of a birthday party his girlfriends had thrown for
him. In the pictures, all six women were walking around his apartment, setting up
balloons, fliers, and baking cakes and other birthday things – wearing nothing but aprons!
It was surreal, to think there were actually men out there living this kind of life.
It was easy for most men seeking advice about women to dismiss Zan because of his
good looks. I’d often hear things like “If I looked like Zan, I’d have six girlfriends too!”
But there was more to it than that, and I knew it. As I said before, looks are not enough
to get six women to share a man in harmony and throw a naked birthday party for.
I wanted to know Zan’s secrets. But Zan is a tough nut to crack. He doesn’t share
techniques such as “Say this to the girl and she’ll give you a blowjob.” Zan’s tactics are
much more philosophical. They apply more to who you are as a man, then what you do
to women.
The first time I was every really able to peg Zan down was in Chicago. We were both
there attending a dating seminar where some mutual friends were teaching in-field
workshops.
After a night at the clubs, we all found ourselves at a nearby McDonalds at two in the
morning. Zan came in, somewhat drunk from the partying, and I invited him to sit with
me.
“Zan, can I ask you a question?”
“Shoot,” he said.
“Do you think a lot of your success has to do with the fact you’re such a good looking
guy?” I asked. “I mean, how much of attraction depends on looks and how much of it is
something else?”
Zan laughed. “You know how many times I get asked that?”
“I’m sure you get asked that a lot,” I said. “But I need to know. Sometimes I feel like
unless I look like Brad Pitt, I’m never going to be able to attract a woman.”
“Do you know the story about Brad Pitt?” Zan asked me.
“Other than he’s one of the biggest movies stars in the world?” I replied.
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