“Exactly!” cheered Zan, slamming his fist on the table. “Good looks are common. I
could throw a stone into a crowd and hit a good looking woman. But beauty, beauty is
uncommon! Beauty is magnetic! Beauty is the flame that attracts the moths. A beautiful
person is someone you never tire of being around. And if they find you beautiful as well,
that’s when love enters the picture.”
“So how do you define beauty?” I asked.
“How do you define what you feel?” Zan replied. “If she makes you feel bad, she’s not
beautiful. If she makes you feel good, she is! See how simple it can be?”
“But there’s got to be more to it than that,” I said.
Zan shook his head. “There you go, trying to make it more complicated that it is. Why
muck something up by making it harder than it has to be?”
“But –“
“No ‘buts’,” Zan interrupted. “You’re looking for something that isn’t there. You’re
trying to make a simple issue complicated because you don’t want to believe that
attraction, love, and women are something that could be that easy to understand. Let go.
Live by the Zan Philosophy.”
“What, pray tell, is the Zan Philosophy?”
“It’s what I live my life by,” he said. “I move towards beauty, and away from that which
is not beautiful.”
“That’s it?” I said.
“That’s it!” he replied.
“But how doest that work?” I asked. “How can that work?”
“We already know that women seek out beauty and find it attractive,” Zan said. “If you
spend your time surrounding yourself with beauty, what is that going to attract?”
At that point, what Zan was saying hit me like a ton of brinks.
“Women!” I exclaimed.
“And money, and happiness, and good friends, and a good family, and all sorts of other
things,” said Zan. “Negative influences hold you back. They keep you from getting what
you want. They keep you stuck. When you move away from that which is holding you
back and collect positive things around you, you’ll find more positive things gravitate to
where you are.
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